Cody Kaiyle Bear Jacobs obituary

Cody Kaiyle Bear Jacobs Obituary

Sands Point, New York, United States

June 05, 1980 - September 25, 2021

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Cody Kaiyle Bear Jacobs obituary

Cody Kaiyle Bear Jacobs Obituary

Jun 05, 1980 - Sep 25, 2021

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Cody Jacobs, 41, of Sands Point, New York, passed on September 25, 2021. Cody was born on June 05, 1980. He is survived by his Grandfather Jesse, Grandmother Marie, mother Tara, his sister Cara, brother-in-law Gabriel, nephew Zayne, and niece Mia. He is predeceased by his father Oliviero and grandparents Valentino and Francesca. Private services will be held in Cody’s hometown of Port Washington, NY on October 9, 2021. The family asks for privacy at this time.

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Elise N
Elise N
Oct 27, 2021

Mrs. Jacobs and family, if you are reading this I want to extend my deepest condolences to your entire family. Cody J was my high school love. He would write me the sweetest letters almost every day. He would cook me food and bring it to school. He really was a sweet guy. I never did connect with him as adults, but I know that he went on to become very successful. Hearing about his passing has me left with a lot of regret. I still have his letters. I read them and just remember being so in love with him. I heard about his passing yesterday and it's been very hard to accept. We loved each other throughout the most tender years of our lives. I still remember his voice. I still remember the first time I saw him. He was so cute. I'm very sadden to know that he is no longer here. Hope you are dancing with angels, Cody J.

Alana B
Alana B
Oct 22, 2021

Hey Cody J, thinking of you a lot tonight. I recall so, so, so many memories of us from the past. We loved drinking on the beach and we would just talk about our dreams and life. You always knew what you wanted, and I was always so unsure about my life. We really drove each other up the walls crazy and those memories are so funny now. We came a long way from being stupid kids in love. You were so supportive of my marriage and I know you would have been there if you weren't in Italy. We were supposed to continue to support each other on our wonderful achievements in life. I will never forget you and a piece my heart will always be with you. Missing you and wish I could hear your voice or see you again. I hope that you can feel how much love people have for you.

Cindy W
Cindy W
Oct 20, 2021

Cody Jacobs, The brightest, longest, reddest roses were thrown on your name. The blackest ties and wardrobe was worn. We all stood in line to drop our roses as "hallelujah" played. The sun was setting and many hearts were dying. Sometimes people don't understand how much they are loved until they go. Cody Jacobs, you were loved.I will miss you, Cody. Your family sent you off with elegance and dignity. I really cant accept this.

Lisa R
Lisa R
Oct 20, 2021

Your service was so beautiful, Cody. I hope that you felt it and I hope you felt all the love that was there. Your family looked amazing and sent you off with dignity and love. The black theme made it more elegant and matched your family and matched your moods. I used to call you Mr. Grumpy and it really was you. You were perfect the way that you were. I miss you a lot tonight. Sipping wine out of the mug you custom made for me years ago about starting your morning right so you can listen to your grumpy boss. Sending you a drink wherever you are.

Uncle Cilantro
Uncle Cilantro
Oct 11, 2021

I wish you could see that the lack of love from one individual does not outweigh the love from the hundreds of people who love you. I’m so angry that you chose to do this over a woman. Do you think she’s mourning your loss? Do you think you made a difference in her life? She is filth and you wasted your life and hurt all these people. I am your family Cody. You could have turned to me. Of all the stupid things you did in your life this is by far the dumbest. Do you understand the pain you left? Your mom will never be the same. I am your uncle and you could have called me. I know you and I have our differences but you forgave me and we were in a good place. I would call you when I was feeling lost and you would help me. I would have done the same. I’m so angry. Yesterday did not bring closure it poured more salt on the wound.

Your  “P”
Your “P”
Oct 09, 2021

You have always echoed my beliefs and my sentiments and I’ve always related well to you. The world goes by in a slow flash because I’m not really ready to accept that you are gone. I feel like I missed out on something I could never get back. I bet you look great from above, lit by stars, surrounded by so much love. You were everything to everyone. Today will be by far the hardest thing I have done to date. You know how much love I carried for you.

Kristen  F
Kristen F
Oct 08, 2021

Thinking of you a little extra today, Cody. I miss you deeply. Wish you were here.

Cindy E
Cindy E
Oct 08, 2021

I’m so sad to have learned about your passing. I remember how close we were during summer intermission and I remember us laughing so hard until we cried. We went to different schools but saw each other every summer. I know that you went on to become successful and that you loved your family very much. Even though we’ve lost touch during the years, I never stopped thinking about you. You were a wonderful person and an even better friend. I’ll miss you, Cody! Cara, wishing you and your family nothing but warmth and love during this difficult time.

Jon C
Jon C
Oct 07, 2021

I am dying laughing because I remember when we entered the talent show and sang "Anything", by 3T. It is so comical and I don't think that we ever lived that down. You were so good looking though and it masked how bad we sounded... LMFAO!!!!!! We fucking sucked but still managed to come in second. LMFAO! I really needed this laugh. I miss you, Cody Jacobs. Thank you for sharing your light and life with me.

Skippy S
Skippy S
Oct 07, 2021

I’m so sorry for the loss of your son, Tara. He was a good hearted man. I tried calling you a few times but got no response. If there’s anything you need for his services please let me know. We will all be there. Deepest condolences my dear.

Cara Jacobs
Cara Jacobs
Oct 06, 2021

Our family is overwhelmed with the amount of love that Cody has brought together. We would humbly like to request for everyone not to extend this obituary. It was only meant to be an announcement for his passing. We will be having his services on October 9, 2021 and it will also be available on zoom for those abroad and not able to make it. Email me at cara.ja.tay@gmail.com for the information. We understand how much you all miss Cody too but please do not keep extending this obituary. You know how much he is hating all this love haha.

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Oct 06, 2021

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Anonymous M
Anonymous M
Oct 04, 2021

Cody, I miss your touch on nights when I'm hollow I know you crossed a bridge that I can't follow. Since the love that you left is all that I get I want you to know that if I can't be close to you I settle for the ghost of you I miss you more than life (more than life).

Minu Minu
Minu Minu
Oct 04, 2021

Cody J- For as long as I knew you, you've said that you won't live to see 40. On your 40th birthday I emailed you to wish you a happy birthday. You've always had a premonition that you would not live long but you made it to 41. You were never satisfied or happy. We reconnected after years apart and I could tell that something was different with you. Dominic was gone and things were different. I knew how much you missed him. Although, we had a tumultuous relationship, I have never met another like you. The years that you gave to me are irreplaceable. I wish you called me that night. I could have read you E.A.P to disengage you. That used to work. You LOVED Edgar Allen Poe. Your favorite story was "The Black Cat". It was reminiscent of Mr. Spooky. You actually hated cats until he became your pet. We had the best conversations. I was so beyond proud of your law school journey. I am rambling. I just miss you. I miss our conversions. You NEVER answered your phone but when you called me back 789326723984 hours later I was so happy to talk to you. We loved to talk about California and NY current events. We loved talking about new music and our families. I have so much memories of you, Cody. I could write a book about you but I know how private you are so I'll stop here. I love you, handsome puma.

Westley E
Westley E
Oct 04, 2021

I’ve known Cody J for years. He was supposed to start mentoring me in kickboxing n I was supposed to do some repairs around his house. Sad to know that will never happen. He was always a good friend. Gave me good advice and encouraged me to find better jobs and to want more for myself and my growing family. I feel like I failed him. My deepest and most sincere condolences go out to Cody’s ohana.

Sophia  C
Sophia C
Oct 03, 2021

Uncle Cody, I remember when I told you that I was pregnant. I was never so afraid lol. You gave me warm and loving advice and then told me to make a registry. I've known you for my whole life. I have nothing but warm and happy memories of you. My dad is so broken. I'll do my best to hold it together for everyone. Aunt Tara and aunt Cara and family, I love you guys. Stay strong.

Mario N
Mario N
Oct 03, 2021

I’m not sure if anyone is aware of this but Cody was actually a talented musician. His love for Jazz only made him more talented. Cody used to come to my club all the time. He was always composed and just entranced by the music. Sometimes he would be feeling down and we’d talk for a few hours. He treated my club with respect and my workers loved him. He was easy on the eyes and held great conversations. Gonna miss him. 🙏🏽

Carter F
Carter F
Oct 02, 2021

He’s sorely missed. I met Cody back in ‘03 when we worked together. He was the most serious person I knew but had such a kind heart. I’m heartbroken that he felt this was the only way out. Love to his family.

Donavan P
Donavan P
Oct 02, 2021

Missing you Cody. Condolences to the Jacobs family. You helped me in so many ways. I will never forget you.

Agnes Little  crow
Agnes Little crow
Oct 02, 2021

Cody, I can't believe that you did it. I hate you but I love you. Why did you do it, Cody? I refuse to accept that you're gone. Why Cody? Why ?

Alana  B
Alana B
Oct 02, 2021

This can't be real. I love you Cody J. Always did, this is surreal.

Emile A
Emile A
Oct 02, 2021

I will miss you Cody J! I am broken . Condolences to the Jacob's family.

Diana  N
Diana N
Oct 02, 2021

Cody was the absolute most professional boss. I will miss working with him. He made me a better worker.

Ahren  J
Ahren J
Oct 02, 2021

Unbearable loss. Cody was my friend. He didn't know but he was.

Shawn  P
Shawn P
Oct 02, 2021

I'm gutted and completely rendered speechless. Fuck Cody, why?

Sabri B
Sabri B
Oct 02, 2021

Cody, I never said all i need to say to you. Do you remember the time you stopped me from jumping of George Washington bridge? I remember. I just wish that I was able to be there for you too. I miss you.

Bruno  A
Bruno A
Oct 02, 2021

bambino was my most trusted. wish he called me to ring sense into him. no female is worth it. missing my best friend. the hurt is so real.

Emily G
Emily G
Oct 01, 2021

I'm so sorry Cara. I wish I had the words to comfort you through this. I still can't believe it. Cody was so amazing in every way. It's been years since I've saw him but I will miss his handsome face so much. All of my love to your family.

Carol J
Carol J
Oct 01, 2021

Condolences to the Jacob's family. I am so sorry Cara. I knew how much he meant to you.

Nat s
Nat s
Oct 01, 2021

Prayers for Cody's family. He was so awesome. He will be forever missed. Love you, Cody!

Kevin M
Kevin M
Oct 01, 2021

Condolences and so much love to the Jacob's family. No one will fill Cody's void. I'm still in shock.

Maddy T
Maddy T
Oct 01, 2021

Uncle Cody, You were the most awesome person. I will miss you. I wish you didn't do this to yourself. You always told me that life will get better. I will always remember you for cheering me up and helping me to be better. I love you uncle Cody.

Cindy w
Cindy w
Oct 01, 2021

Cody, I am at a loss for words. You were the best part of everything. I don't know what I will do without you. I'm missing you something fierce. Why did you leave me? You were everything I aspired to be. I miss your advice. I lost 15 pounds. You would be proud. We were supposed to eat oysters when you came home. I am so sad Cody. I don't know if I will be OK. I love you and I hope that you are at peace. I love you, Cody.

Jesse B
Jesse B
Oct 01, 2021

Cody was a leader and was my favorite Grandson. He was the only one to call me and always checked on me. My sweet boy, I am sorry for the pain you had to endure in your tender life. I have so many questions but just know that I love you sweet boy. I will miss your calls. Love, Grandpa Jesse.

Kimiko N
Kimiko N
Oct 01, 2021

I miss you dear friend. Why did you have to go? I wish you knew that I loved you.

Jon C
Jon C
Oct 01, 2021

When people think of Cody they automatically equate him with intelligence. He was wise beyond his years, but was also so real. He was so well versed in any topic. He could hold a debate for hours if you let him. We often hung up the phone in bad terms only to reconcile the next day. If anyone knows me they know that I will never get over this. Cody was my best friend. I will miss sending him pictures only to hear him say that he doesn't care. He cared. That's the hard part. He cared about his friends, his future, and most of all his family. I can't believe that he finally succeeded. Guilt is heavy, I do wish that I did more. My daughter shares his birthday, I hope to instill his good qualities in her. I can't believe this.I know that he was everyone's best friend but he really was mine. In and out. I miss him. I'm so sorry Cara. I know that your kids are hurting.

Roel M
Roel M
Oct 01, 2021

Disbelief. My condolences. Utter heartbreak. No words. I will miss him forever.

Pete G
Pete G
Oct 01, 2021

Prayers to the family. Cody was loved. I will miss him. Can't wrap my mind around this.

Blanca White
Blanca White
Oct 01, 2021

I remember the first time I met you. Hands down the most handsome man in NY. You trusted me to groom you. Me. You trusted me. I don't know what to say. I miss you. I can't fathom that I will never see you again. My condolences to the family.

Marina S
Marina S
Oct 01, 2021

You really were the best human I've ever known. I wish you reached out to me. I loved you so much Cody J. So much that I still can't breathe. I don't know what I'm gonna do without your irritating voice of reason. I just loved you so much. You forced me to live my truth and now you're gone. Why? I loved you so much.

Greg N
Greg N
Oct 01, 2021

My best to Tara and the entire family. No words. Cody will be missed. I will miss him. Always ready to lend a helping hand. I am still in shock, he had a beautiful soul.

Vane F
Vane F
Oct 01, 2021

Mr. Cody J, I will miss you for the rest of my life. I can't believe that you are gone. I know that you are sleeping forever now. I loved so much, Cody. I will until my last breath.

Ivan K
Ivan K
Oct 01, 2021

CODY was my best friend. This loss is immeasurable. I am at a loss for words. Prayers for the Jacob's family. He was so loved and is so missed.

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