Phyllis Adele Olstad was born in Valley City, North Dakota on December 7th, 1931 in the middle of a snowstorm. She was baptized and confirmed in the Lutheran faith. Growing up, Phyllis and her family lived on several farms throughout the Valley City area before they were finally able to get a farm of their own near Kathryn, ND in the Sheyenne Valley when Phyllis was 11.
Phyllis contracted rheumatic fever as a young girl and needed a year to recuperate. As a result she missed her entire 5th grade year of school. Despite being away from school for a whole year, Phyllis was an outstanding student and in high school she realized she wanted to be a nurse. Unfortunately, her high school in Kathryn did not offer all the science classes she would need for nursing school, particularly chemistry and physics.
Before her Junior year in high school, Phyllis and her parents made the decision for her to live with another family while she attended College High School about 20 miles away in Valley City where she could get the science classes she needed. While living there, she earned her keep by doing housework and baby-sitting the family’s four boys.
Phyllis graduated from College High School in 1950 and then moved west for nurse training at Bismarck Hospital. As part of her nursing curriculum, she completed additional training at a hospital in Knoxville, Iowa. While in Knoxville she met Harold Wallace.
After moving back to Bismarck and earning her RN degree in the spring of 1953, Phyllis and Harold were married in September 1953 at her home church in the Sheyenne Valley. Phyllis and Harold lived in Iowa for several years and had three children there, David, Thomas, and Barbara before moving their family to Renton, Washington in 1962.
After working for many years as a nurse in the Renton area, Phyllis later went back to school and earned another degree so she could become an administrator at a nursing home.
Phyllis fully embraced a love of nature and the Northwest out of doors. She was an avid camper, hiker, and eventually went on to enjoy several overnight backpacking trips in the NW wilderness. Two of her favorite places were the Pacific Ocean beaches and Mount Rainier, or as she called it, “The Mountain”.
In retirement Phyllis enjoyed travel both near and far, venturing to such distant locations as Alaska, Russia, the Panama Canal, and Israel. For her 80th birthday celebration she soared aloft in a hot air balloon and scaled the summit of nearby Crystal Ski Resort on a gondola where she could have a better look at The Mountain.
Phyllis was deeply religious and always active in her church, Bible study and the fellowship of her FOCUS group.
Phyllis lived a full life and loved spending time with her family. She was a great mom, grandmother and sister and will be truly missed.
Phyllis’ family invites you to have a look at pictures from Phyllis' life in the photo section of this website.
And please share your thoughts, memories, stories and photos of Phyllis in the Guestbook section.
Guestbook
The obituary is very nice. The pictures are all my favorites. I picked the red dahlia for the flower wall because it looks strong and vibrant and makes you smile and feel cared about. Those were the same characteristics I remember about Phyllis. Thank Red is also my favorite color. She was one of my favorites. Due to Phyllis and Barb, my flower garden is more beautiful. I will miss her, her beautiful eyes that sparkled and her wonderful smile. Another Angel, RN is now in heaven. Amen! Gia
I was the youngest of the three Olstad sisters. Phyllis was eight years older than me and Dorie was two years older than her. So I didn't really get to know them until I was a little older. But the three of us had some great times together. Phyllis was a great big sister and one of my favorite people to talk to and confide in. I will miss her greatly but take comfort knowing she's at peace and reunited with mom, dad, and Dorie. -Mary Ann
Our condolences to the entire family. Phyllis will be greatly missed. She truly enjoyed her family and grandchildren. Her smile was so genuine and contagious! It was impossible not to smile when she smiled at you! That really comes through in all the great photos you've shared. We're sorry for your loss, but know she will be remembered fondly. -Heath and Shannon Webber