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It is with great sadness that the family of Mr. Tony L. Ross, announce his untimely passing on Tuesday, November 5, 2024, after a brief illness, at the age of 86.

Beloved Family Man

Mr. Ross is survived by his beloved wife of 60 years, Mrs. Alice L. Earl Ross, and his three children: James P. Taylor, Tony L. Ross, Jr., and Shena Marie Ross-Fortson. His enduring legacy lives on through his five cherished grandchildren—Shawn L. Ross, Andrew M. Ross-Fortson, Austin R. Ross-Fortson, Aaron C. Ross-Fortson, and Alyson S. Ross-Tucker—and one treasured great-grandchild, Autumn Milan Ross-Tucker.

Mr. Ross was preceded in death by his parents, John H. Ross and Juanita Dixon Ross, as well as eight siblings.

Early Life and Career

Tony, Sr. was born in 1938 in Abingdon, Virginia, as the youngest of nine siblings. In 1959, he proudly enlisted in the United States Air Force, beginning an extraordinary journey in Computer Science. His commitment to education culminated in earning a degree in Applied Science from New York University in 1976.

In 1964, he married Alice L. Earl in New York City, and together they created a life rich with love and laughter across various locations including New York, Tennessee, Maryland, and Virginia Beach, before recently establishing their final residence in North Carolina to be closer to immediate family.

A Life of Passion and Connection

Mr. Ross was a devoted computer coder and programmer; however, his interests transcended far beyond the digital world. He found immense joy on the golf course and in bowling, where he embraced the challenges that both sports offered. His passion for bowling was particularly special, as it was a shared activity with his beloved wife, Alice.

Tony’s love for strategy also extended to chess, a passion he shared with his grandsons, while encouraging them to develop their own interests in the game that would endure over time.

His enthusiasm for genealogy, literature, and the arts flourished through a close relationship with his daughter, Shena. Together, they nurtured a profound appreciation for theater, classic literature, and poetry, enriching their lives with shared experiences and discussions about these subjects.

In addition to these pursuits, Mr. Ross forged a unique bond with his two sons James and Tony, Jr. Through their mutual passion for music, they collaborated to create beautiful melodies that not only showcased their creativity but also strengthened their familial connections, leaving behind a legacy filled with artistic expression and affection.

A Cherished Legacy

Tony was a loving husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, uncle, and friend. His unwavering commitment to learning from those around him left an indelible impression on everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him. The insights, passion, and wisdom he shared will continue to motivate his family and all whose lives he touched. He will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Final Arrangements

In accordance with his wishes, following his passing, Mr. Ross was cremated. In the coming weeks, the family will hold a small memorial. Mr. Ross will be interred at a local Veterans National Cemetery in North Carolina, TBA.

The family appreciates your patience and understanding as they navigate this challenging period of profound loss.

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FINAL ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

The Ross Family wishes to express their heartfelt gratitude to the dedicated specialists, doctors, nurses, and support staff who provided exceptional care for our beloved family member during his time of need. We would like to specifically acknowledge and thank the following organizations:

FirstHealth Hospice & Palliative Care - Moore County - The Hospice House (West End, NC)

Your compassionate care and support made a profound difference in our loved one’s final days. The kindness and professionalism exhibited by your team will always be remembered.

FirstHealth Moore Regional Hospital (Pinehurst, NC)

We are deeply grateful for the skilled medical attention and unwavering support provided by the staff at FirstHealth Moore Regional Hospital. Your commitment to excellence in patient care was evident throughout our family’s experience.

First Health Moore Regional Hospital - Richmond (Rockingham, NC)

Thank you for your dedication and the quality of care that you provided. Your efforts ensured that our family member received the best possible treatment during a challenging time.

Humana Home Care

We appreciate the home care services that allowed our loved one to remain comfortable and dignified in their own environment. Your team’s compassion and expertise were invaluable to us.

To all of these organizations and their remarkable staff, we extend our sincerest thanks for your tireless efforts and dedication. Your impact on our family during this difficult time will not be forgotten.